Blog Posts

News, updates, and stories from Thistlebend Ministries.

Why You Don’t Have to be Right

My Abigail (Thistlebend’s small group leaders called to shepherd the members of their group in God’s word and hold them accountable) said something to me last week in our small group time that The Lord allowed to be so freeing to me. In las

February 25, 2017

When Your Expectations Aren’t Met

“We cannot write our own story, He is the Author. He is the Beginning, the Middle, and the End.” “He has a story He is going to tell in our lives. He has a story of redemption.” These are quotes from the first lecture of the Falling in Love

February 21, 2017

Wives—Your Greatest Calling

Have you ever heard the expression “Hurts so Good?” When I hear it, I think of elite athletes whose training must hurt, but is ultimately deemed “good” because it yields impressive gains. That’s where I am today in our current study, Fallin

February 18, 2017

When You Just Don’t Feel Like It

During the first week of homework from the Falling In Love Again With Your Husband study, over two days, Laurie asked participants to read through Psalm 119. The homework prompted participants on day four of the first week, “Read verses 1-8

February 6, 2017

Lies Women Believe About Marriage

We are beginning a new study: Falling In Love Again With Your Husband. I need this study. I am married. I love my husband. But I did not tell him the name of the study until the day we started. Why not? I was afraid. I was afraid my husband

February 3, 2017

Why It’s Okay You’re Not a Good Wife

This past week Thistlebend began a new study called Falling In Love Again With Your Husband. To be totally honest with you, as much as I’m embarrassed to say it, I thought I was doing pretty well in this area. Both my husband and I love and

February 1, 2017

New Year’s Resolutions

Holy smokes, it’s 2017! 2016 was a hard year. We had health problems in my family. Two of us required surgery. We spent days, weeks, months – it seemed – focused on simply getting through the day. Chronic pain and fatigue made it difficult

January 24, 2017

A Heart That Beats with God’s Heart

Have you ever read Psalm 63? If you have or have not, here is a brief summary of what took place in this Psalm. David was on the run from his son Absalom so he fled into the Wilderness of Judah. Being an extremely visual learner, I started

January 19, 2017

Dependence in Community

Our study has been on a break for the holidays and I’ve got to tell you, I was ready for a little break. Please don’t misunderstand, I LOVE our studies and I LOVE Thistlebend, but sometimes it’s just good to have a break from the normal rou

January 17, 2017

Lord, Change What I Yearn For

Oh, Christmas time! There are many parts of this season I love! Decorating. Putting up the Christmas tree. Visiting and sharing meals with family. Enjoying festive lights. Receiving Christmas cards and hearing from friends and family. Givin

January 12, 2017

Feeling the (Spiritual) Burn

I just recently started my workout routine again. I used to be pretty disciplined in this, but taking a six week break after my baby and then having a totally new schedule altogether threw me for a loop. I’m starting with just quick 20 minu

January 11, 2017

Where Is My Hope?

Our study for the fall of 2016, Falling in Love Again with Your Lord, has come to an end. I have taken this study before, but honestly, the study felt new to me this time. Life changes, but the Word of God does not. It meets us where we are

December 28, 2016